Since around Christmas, Deyra has been obsessed with getting a computer. She looked at them at Walmart when she stayed with our friend Grace. I told her that she should probably get a computer at a better quality store and dropped her off at Best Buy while I got my hair cut. Deyra talked to a worker there (in Spanish much to her delight) and he told her that she would need a crazy warranty and all kinds of other extras. This scared her because it was going to be very expensive. I explained to Deyra that sales people want to sell you everything that they can and to disregard much of their advice. I explained that a two or more year warranty would not serve her as she would be back in Nicaragua with nowhere to take her broken computer. After our talk, Deyra was relieved and ready to get a computer.
I told Deyra about ads that come out in the Sunday paper and gave her some for electronics stores. She asked me questions about some of the computers which I, of course, could not answer. When Kevin came home, she asked him and he spent a long time talking to her about computers and what she wanted to use it for.
Deyra told us that she wanted a computer to use the internet and we explained that we do not have internet at our house. She said that she had heard about a portable internet device and when I told her how much it costs per month, she quickly changed her mind. We asked her why else she wanted a computer and she said just to have one and she would keep it in the box until she moved to the dorms where she would be able to use internet. Kevin explained to her that computers are constantly changing and becoming better and that it did not make sense to buy a computer if she was not going to use it for six months. Deyra decided that she would wait to get a computer. Her only qualm was that she had the money now and may spend it before she bought a computer if she did not buy one now. I suggested that she stop buying junk food and continue to save her money for a computer.
Then the new semester began…Deyra now has homework that has to be typed up. She decided that she needs a computer so that she does not have to go to the computer lab all the time. She expected me to take her to Fresno to buy a computer the day that she told me she needed one. I told her that she would have to wait until I had the free time to take her to Fresno (45 minutes away) and spend a couple of hours there.
Deyra would look through the ads each week and arbitrarily choose a computer. She could never give a reason why and it was often the most expensive computer when cheaper ones had the same features. We would talk to her about the reason for her choice and go over the similarities of the cheaper computers and she would change her mind.
After a few weeks, we took Deyra to Best Buy before a soccer game. She was very excited. It was quite an experience…
We asked her as we walked in the store if she knew what she wanted. She said, “Yes, a Sony.” We asked her why a Sony and she replied, “Because the guys (her friends in the SEED program) say it’s the best.” Both Kevin and I tried explaining to her (in Spanish so she understood) that it is better to buy a computer for the features rather than the brand, but she would have none of it because her friends told her Sony was the way to go. We also tried to explain that her friends have never had computers before and don’t know very much about them. She said, “No, they have computers now” and didn’t care that we have years of experience. So she picked out the least expensive Sony, didn’t even care what the specifications were, and declared herself done. Kevin showed her a different brand computer that was exactly the same but $100 cheaper, but she wasn’t interested. So she bought her Sony. I at least convinced her to get a case for it.
Turns out she knows nothing about computers as expected and could not even figure out how to work it! She of course never asked us for help since she has returned to spending all her time in her bedroom, and only told us when we asked her about her computer. She is supposedly talking to her friends and they are going to show her how to work it. We suggested that she ask her adviser about buying Office since she needs that to do her homework. As of yet, she has not done that and still has no idea how to use her computer…but she has a Sony!
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